Frequently asked questions
What is Chinese internet slang?
Informal expressions from Weibo, Douyin, Bilibili, and WeChat that reflect social trends, youth culture, and viral moments.
How is it different from chengyu?
Chengyu are four-character idioms with thousands of years of history. Internet slang is modern, informal, and evolves fast — some terms die in months.
Should I learn this?
Yes, for understanding modern Chinese media and chatting with native speakers online. But don't use these in formal or professional settings.
Where does it come from?
Gaming culture, workplace frustration, and viral moments. Most terms originate from Douyin, Weibo, or Bilibili.
Social & Relationships
10凡尔赛
fán ěr sài
Humble-bragging — showing off wealth or achievements while pretending to be modest or complaining.
PUA
PUA
Psychological manipulation — used broadly to describe gaslighting, emotional manipulation, or toxic behavior by bosses, partners, etc.
秀狗/秀恩爱
xiù ēn ài
Showing off affection / PDA — couples who publicly display their relationship in an over-the-top way.
鸡娃
jī wá
Tiger parenting on steroids — pushing children extremely hard academically with endless tutoring and activities.
虾头
xiā tóu
Shrimp head — describes someone who is attractive from behind but disappointing from the front.
搭子
dā zi
Activity buddy — a person you pair up with for specific activities (meal buddy, study buddy, travel buddy).
晒
shài
To show off / share publicly — posting photos of purchases, trips, or achievements on social media.
大地/大爹
dà dì / dà diē
Big daddy — used sarcastically to describe arrogant or domineering behavior.
淡人/浓人
dàn rén / nóng rén
Mild person vs. intense person — a simplified personality split. 淡人 are low-energy and unbothered, 浓人 are loud, passionate, and extra about everything.
狗粮
gǒu liáng
Dog food — what single people are "fed" when couples show off their relationship in front of them. Forced to consume PDA.